Vol 206 – “Please Fasten Your Seat Belts.”
What’s New?
“Just in case you haven’t flown since 1989(!)“ the flight attendant cheekily announced over the loud speaker, “we want to remind you that smoking on the aircraft is strictly prohibited . . .”
It was a speech that was met with a nice chuckle from those of us on board. Of course, everyone knows that smoking is no longer allowed on an airplane - don’t they? From food, to drink, to luggage, the skies are decidedly less friendly then they used to be.
The same is true for Real Estate. Looking at the ten-page contract and the ENORMOUS stack of disclosures today’s typical sale encumbers, my father shakes his head in sheer amazement and exclaims, “When I sold real estate, we used to write the contract on the trunk of my car and the whole thing was only one page.” (Those days are long, l-o-n-g gone!)
But the difference isn’t just in the size and breadth of the contract and the countless, requisite disclosures that accompany it, it’s in the behavior of the parties themselves, and in the way we treat one another as we progress through the deal – challenging or not.
“Ladies and gentleman, please fasten your seat belts. It looks like there’s some turbulence ahead . . . “
Boy is there ever! I don’t mean to criticize; after several years in a softening marketplace, that’s truthfully seen more lows than highs, almost everyone is feeling a bit battered and bruised. (I share your pain – I do!) As a result, the tendency is to be hyper vigilant, super suspicious and uberwary; as if these attitudes were the answers to our problems. They’re not. In the heart of the deal – as in life – negative emotions are of little value.
If the house doesn’t sell quickly (or at all) it’s because the Realtor didn’t market it correctly, and if the house sells immediately, it’s because the Realtor must have underpriced it! If the Buyer makes a request, it’s incredibly unfair. If the Seller needs some time, they’re being unimaginably unreasonable! For some tortured souls, there is no happy ending – no matter what the outcome. Buckle up!
I have to wonder, how does all this angst and negativity really serve the parties involved? The short answer is – it doesn’t.
I recently watched a deal unravel unnecessarily for no other reason than bad manners (really!). I’ll spare you the ugly details, but suffice it to say that the more one side bucked, the more the other side balked- with little real justification on either end.
Not that the “offended parties” didn’t manufacture a twisted reason for staying angry at one another (“pretzels anyone?”), it’s just that compared to the price being paid for the property, the eleventh hour negotiations, while unfortunate and inconvenient, were nothing more than peanuts. (Which btw, is about the only thing they serve on planes anymore.) Move on and let it go . . . we can waste valuable time feeling “insulted.”
Regardless of the challenges (and yes, there are many) take a moment, collect your thoughts, ask yourself if it really matters(?), place yourself in the other party’s shoes, cultivate empathy, practice understanding, PAUSE . . . breathe, (are you calm yet?) and then PLAY NICE! Granted, it requires some discipline on your part, but trust me, your kindness will usually be rewarded. Conversely, poor behavior ALWAYS begets still poorer results. The higher road isn’t just the easier way to go, it’s the smarter route to take.
“We’ve reached our maximum altitude, you are free to move around the cabin.”
With good intentions, the journey is so much more pleasant. It’s also incredibly more liberating.
“Thanks for flying with us today, we’ve landed safely. We hope you enjoyed your journey.”
What’s Coming?
Joanna Hirsch has just listed 1557 Trestle Glen in Crocker Highlands. This classic Mediterranean home features 3+bdrms/2bths, period details throughout, including hardwood floors and original built-ins, thoughtfully appointed chef’s kitchen, elegant formal living room with wood-beamed ceilings and a wood-burning fireplace, spacious formal dining room and a beautifully remodeled bath. What’s not to love? Open Sunday, 2-4:30pm. List price: $729,000. www.grubbco.com
Nancy Lehrkind has just listed 24 Richardson Way in Piedmont. This attractive Tudor home features elegant central staircase, beautiful leaded glass windows, inviting brick patio, hardwood floors, 4 bedrooms up, a fifth bedroom behind the kitchen, den/office and elegant formal living and dining rooms. Centrally located and easily adaptable. Open Sunday, 2-4:30pm. List price: $1,695,000. www.grubbco.com
(I haven’t mentioned every special home – just a few of my favorites! For a more complete guide, please feel free to email me at jgardner@grubbco.com or better yet, give me a call 510 326-0840!)
What’s Happening?
Price REDUCTIONS are happening! In a positive sign that sellers are motivated and ready to sell, prior to the Thanksgiving holidays, several good homes have taken notable price reductions. If you are in the market to buy, the Fall/Winter Market typically provides the best savings! (The Spring Market; the best inventory.)
Karen Starr offers a terrific investment or owner-occupied opportunity at 1321-23 Glenfield in the Glenview District of Oakland; reduced from $689,000 to $649,000. Great building, great location, great price!
Mindy Scott’s listing at 19 Littlewood Drive in Piedmont has been reduced to $1,475,000. Featuring 4 bedrooms up, an inviting, airy and open floorplan, BIG kitchen and a quiet cul-de-sac location, this sunny home is ready to sell!
Katherine Cooper has two Piedmont reductions worthy of our time and attention: A “diamond in the rough” at 246 Park View, reduced $50,000 to $825,000.
AND a sophisticated Contemporary at 11 Huntleigh, reduced $80,000 to $1,895,000. Come and get ‘em!
Steve Michaelede’s fun and fabulous listing in “New” Montclair at 868 Leo Way in Oakland is now only $1,350,000!
While you’re in the neighborhood, drop by Bebe McRae’s listing at 964 Leo Way, now reduced to: $1,195,000.
Shopping Berkeley? There are great values to be had here as well . . .
Don’t forget Anja Plowright and Colette Ford’s 44 Highgate listing in Kensington, 6bdrms/3++bths, now reduced to: $1,545,000.
OR their sweet listing at 763 Alvarado,in Berkeley - 3bdrms/2bths, now reduced to an affordable: $775,000.
Last but certainly not least, Bebe McRae reminds us that 636 Wildcat Canyon is now offered at: $1,650,000.
All of these opportunities (and many more!) can be found at www.grubbco.com .
What’s Fun!
Let’s Build Blair Park!
The Master Plan has been released, so bring the whole family down to Piedmont Park in the center of town to commemorate this important milestone. Don’t miss this fun celebration of community; a lively rally to support the Blair Park gift!
There will be games, treats, contests, and opportunities to learn about Blair Park - Piedmont’s newest park and play field.
AND, they’ll be a community photo at 11:00am!
Wear your sports uniform, a Blair Park T-shirt or, your favorite Halloween costume and join your friends and neighbors for what’s sure to be a fantastic unveiling. What an amazing feat – thanks to an amazing group of people!
See you next week!

